Saturday, October 21, 2017
I have been basically away from my machine for six months now! Quilting this made me feel like a total newbie...but within a very short period of time it all started to come back. Guess it is like riding a bike, LOL.
It took me two days to quilt and bind this mini, but I was filled with joy the entire time. Quilting really IS my therapy. I still don't know why I walked away from my hobby at a time when I needed it most. Maybe deep down I didn't feel I deserved to be joyful after losing Mom. Whatever the reason (and I'm sure a psychiatrist somewhere would have a ball with it), I'm back and planning tons of quilts moving forward. For right now, though, Ellie (my sewing machine) is in the shop for a much needed once over. I just realized yesterday that I never took her for her yearly check up! Life just got away from me.
Tomorrow I will take down my Spring/Summer mini and hang this beauty. First thing on the agenda when Ellie gets back? A small topper for the "catch-all" table just inside the front door. Dear Hubby even asked if I could make different quilts/wall hangings to hang on the walls throughout the house and change them throughout the year. That is a request I will be happy to fulfill!
Wednesday, October 18, 2017
Somewhere between my last post and now, I decided that my mini quilt really DID need "something more". I "think" I love it, but I'm still not completely sure LOL.
What I WAS sure of was the need to sew up a tiny table topper for the little white table also in the foyer. I cut off one of the other panel blocks to use as the center section of the topper. It turned out to be the entire topper! Some quilting and a multicolored binding and it was good to go! Easy, Peasy!
That is the extent of the quilting/sewing I have done since we lost mom. I just haven't had it in me. Until recently. During a meeting with the bereavement counselor who had come to my parents' home, she began commenting on the beautiful quilts in their family room. They were the quilts I had made for my dad and then, the following year, for my mom. The counselor has encouraged me to get back to my quilts. My quilts have been my therapy, but in my time of greatest need I have failed to reach for my machine. Maybe she was right.
So today I began rummaging through the TON of mending piled on top of my sewing table and came upon a Fall mini quilt I had begun way back...when? To be honest I don't remember when I began working on this piece, or if I even showed it to you before, but I think it is time the work continues! I need to get back to the creative side of my life. This year has seen the full gamut of emotions for me....concern, confusion, anger, disbelief and heartbreak. Now it is time to concentrate on the future and the happy times ahead. Mom would want it that way.
Wedding plans are moving ahead and G and J will be married on my mom's birthday next year. She loved her only grandchild with all of her heart and wanted nothing more than to see him married and meet her first great grandchild. While she may not be here in person for their wedding, she did spend time with The Little Guy and was as crazy about him as he was about her.
I'm sure that when they say their "I DOs" she will be watching from above, proud of the wonderful man her grandson has become, and filled with love for the wonderful woman and precious child who have filled our lives with joy. And, for every ensuing anniversary, as they celebrate their love, they will honor the woman who loved them with all of her heart.
Saturday, May 27, 2017
I looked today and realized that the last time I posted anything here on my blog was March 30th. I am so sorry. Time has disappeared somehow while my life has been crazy, hectic and heartbreaking.
On the twelfth of April I lost my precious mom. Some days I don't know how I'm existing without her and other days I remind myself that she is no longer suffering and that thought gets me through. It's been tough, but I know she would not want me to stop living...so I keep plugging along, hoping for more of the fleeting moments when I can remember her with a smile on my face, and less of the moments that rip my heart to shreds.
We have had some good times, though. Our son, J, became FORMALLY engaged to his wonderful girlfriend, G. Her ring was on order when my mom's condition took a turn for the worse. Fearing her sudden change in condition and wanting her to know their good news, they took a picture from the jeweler's catalog to show to mom.
In her last lucid moment my mom recognized them both, smiled from ear to ear, congratulated them and told them that the ring was "beautiful...not gaudy at all". Amazingly, she remembered discussing some overly ornate rings that G had dismissed as ugly and mom had agreed were "gaudy"!
My mom, who for DAYS had not recognized anyone, or even spoken, gave J and G a wonderful lasting memory. For a few short minutes, when it really mattered, she was "MomMom". Five minutes later she retreated back into her far away world...never rallying again before she passed away.
G and her adorable son have moved into our home while they save for a wedding and a place of their own. I have found joy, and hope, in the little guy. He is the grandson of my heart and I would give my life for his. Just the sound of his voice calling for "Grandma" can instantly lessen my pain. He and his mommy have saved us all.
Last week I sat in front of my sewing machine for the first time and completed this mini for my foyer. My original plan was to add embellishments such as buttons and beads for bling, but it's a thought still caught in limbo. I am finding it difficult to make even the smallest of decisions...so unlike my usual decisive nature. I find my mind drifting off, a million miles away, only brought back to the present by those around me. When, oh when, will I once again live fully in the here and now? I guess that, too, is beyond my control at the moment. Maybe tomorrow will be the day?
Thursday, March 30, 2017
...my future daughter-in-law's favorite jeans. You know what I'm talking about, the soft, "worn in" (though slightly "worn out") pair of jeans that your hand reaches for almost on auto pilot! G had asked me to mend these jeans months and months ago...but my quick fix just wasn't enough. The rip continued to spread until it had grown larger than the previous patch! I needed to be much more aggressive this time! Unfortunately, I forgot to take photos of the process.
I removed the outer patch, while leaving the inside patch where it was. I cut a larger square of denim (from her son's old jeans) and sewed it around the edges to hold it in place. Then I used Fray Check to keep the edges intact. Once that was dry I used a zig-zag stitch all the way around the edge. The patch was firmly adhered to the jeans on unshredded fabric and reinforced by the denim patch inside. However, the shredded area in the middle was still not secured, and was likely to grow as it had previously. What to do?
I searched my sewing machine stitches for something that seemed like it would "cover a lot of area" with each pass. I have absolutely NO idea what this stitch is actually used for! I reduced the size so that the stitches would be close together (I've blown up the photo of my practice fabric so you can see the stitch). I filled the entire center of the denim patch, one row at a time, slightly overlapping the previous row. When the inside of the denim patch was covered, the fabric had taken on a firmer texture, like the patches that were so popular in the 60's and early 70's. I still remember my denim jacket, covered in patches, fondly. Gosh I wish I had saved that jacket. Sigh...
But I digress. Since G loves pink Real Tree camo, I cut a piece of camo to the approximate size of the "darned" area. I used Wonder Under to make the camo fabric fusible. Then, using an iron, I adhered the camo rectangle to the denim patch. I then fray-checked the edges of the camo fabric and sewed a line of stitches approximately 1/4" in from the edge.
I'm hoping against all hope that this patch holds. The fabric in that area is SO thin and frayed! If this doesn't work, I'm afraid her jeans will be goners :o(
Thursday, March 23, 2017
Wednesday, March 15, 2017
As I said before, cutting out all spending is impossible. However, spending money wisely (such as when frequently used items are on sale) can save you a bundle!
I am a crafter. I always have been and I always will be. I can't remember a time in my childhood when I wasn't painting by numbers, embroidering hand towels for my mom, crocheting granny square hats and bags, or using my toy sewing machine to sew little pouches to hold my baseball cards, jacks, bottle caps and marbles. Now that I am retired, quilting, sewing and machine embroidery fill my heart and dreams with joy.
Anyone who crafts on a regular basis will tell you that crafting Is. Not. Cheap!!! I will admit to having spent a rather large amount of money on my crafts during the first five years of my retirement. In my own defense (grin) it has taken me that long to hone my savvy shopper skills. Now-a-days I only spend money on items that are: a) needed to complete a project (on sale of course), b) on deep discount to pad my stash, or c) going to save me money well into the future.
A recent sale at Forth Worth Fabric Studio prompted me to add to my very meager trim stash. Things bought now at low prices are things I will not need to buy at higher prices or when we are living on Dear Hubby's retirement income. I was THRILLED when my beautifully packaged order arrived! I would love to show you a picture of it in all of its glory, but I once again forgot to take a photo before pulling it apart. But, here they are all wrapped up!
Pretty, huh? I just love the cardboard "spools" that they are wrapped around. They were made with my fabulous Sizzix cutting machine. My machine, and the assorted dies I buy to be used with the machine, fall into the "save me tons of money in the future" category. In the past I have used these spools to wrap leftover quilt binding. Every little scrap of fabric I keep means more money saved in the future! Now, how to store these gorgeous trims?
Like most families, we have plastic containers left when food products are consumed. I think this container held peanut butter filled pretzel bites. I hate to see these great storage possibilities go to waste. A quick washing and label removing provided me the perfect jar (free) to hold these trims...and any I add in the future! The label is a free printable that I happened upon years and years ago. At the time I placed the printout into a page protector and filed it in my "Masters" binder.
Now I simply photocopy it onto cardstock (bought in bulk at a reduced price), punch a tiny hole (punch bought at a thrift store) to thread a ribbon (free on a gift I received) through and write the contents with a Sharpie marker (free with purchase of office supplies).
My trim treasures contained within, along with a few empty spools to grow my collection. The sound you just heard was me squealing in delight!
Wednesday, March 8, 2017
I don't remember if I have told you in the past, but Dear Hubby has begun to talk about retirement...actually quoting the number of days until he can put his career behind him. While I am thrilled that in around four years (the latest), or possibly even NEXT YEAR (The sound you hear is me fainting!), he will be leaving his stress filled job and horrible commute; I'm nervous about our unwise lack of preparation. Ack! We should have been preparing for this day from the day we got married! However, "tomorrow" and "retirement" have always seemed So. Far. Away! Until now. Believe me, the reality is hitting hard.
As a result, I've begun a campaign to really tighten the belt! Again. I've tried in the past, but have always fallen off the wagon. No more. I need to get serious! I need to "stash cash" like our lives depend on it...which in a way, they do! He is not leaving the stress of his job to be greeted by the stress of struggling to "make it" on his retirement income. We need to spend less, pay down our bills and stash whatever cash we can! FAST!
While I would LOVE to be able to stop spending completely, that isn't realistic in today's world. So I need to find ways to get everything I need at a cheaper price...and maybe even FREE with enough work and diligence. Every day I embrace a few more activities geared toward saving money or accumulating points that can be used for money off of necessary purchases. There are a million ways to save, but none of them work unless they are implemented.
The most important element of saving money is PAYING ATTENTION. How many things do we do without thinking? A lot, I'm sure. A prime example is heating/cooling our home. About five years ago we purchased a programmable thermostat to regulate the temperature within our home (based upon our routine activities and daily schedule). It has worked well in the past, but the unpredictable nature of the weather recently has rendered the program moot. For example, today has been a beautiful day in my neck of the woods. When I first came downstairs I pulled the screen down on our storm door (a wonderful feature for anyone looking to purchase a new storm door), walked into my sewing room and opened the two windows looking out onto the front porch. Oh...it was lovely. A cool breeze was blowing into the house and I could hear birds chirping in my front landscape. Heavenly. Or so I thought. Unfortunately, I walked into the family room a few moments ago (many hours since I came downstairs) and could hear the distinct hum of the heater directly below. Oh no! I've been letting in the beautiful cool breeze...which is triggering our thermostat to pump out more hot air! I wondered how many times the heater has cycled on throughout the day while I, oblivious, breathed in the cool breeze flowing through my windows. I was enjoying the beautiful day (free), while causing my heater to burn our hard earned cash! Dang! I practically ran to the thermostat to shut down the system, but the damage is done. Sigh. I needed to find a way to keep this from happening in the future!
What I need is a reminder...a checklist that I can run through every day to make sure I am plugging the holes in our budget. My mind immediately jumped to the "Things To Do" tablets that Dear Hubby had gotten FREE (score!) from work many moons ago. I grabbed a tablet and wrote "Turn off thermostat and open windows" in ink on the first line. Every day I can make a light mark next to the reminder. At the end of the week I can erase them. One page should last through the spring and summer months. Making things last longer has a big impact on your budget, but that is a whole other topic! Hopefully I've plugged one hole, but I am sure I need to focus on a whole lot more!
Is there anything you need reminders to do in order to save some of your hard earned money?
Do you find yourself always paying a high price for gas because you wait until the "little light" comes on? Shopping around for the cheapest gas in your area (or even near work) can save you a bundle. There are phone apps that will give you the cheapest price according to location. A post-it strategically placed near the coffee pot can remind you to check prices while drinking your morning brew. If the price is low, top off your tank on the way to work. Even if you aren't completely empty, any gas you add to your tank at a cheaper price is money in your pocket. If the gas station participates with your local grocery store, offering discounts on gas based on the money spent on food, you have really hit the jackpot. Using these points to lower the price of gas can make even a higher "app price" your best bet. All it takes is being mindful and a little bit of calculation to be sure you are getting the best deal.
Can you save your soda cans to turn in for cash at your local recycling center? Getting them into the recycling stream is wonderful, but getting paid to do it is a win/win. The same applies to glass bottles. If you can return them for money - do so! Back to cans. Obtain a wall mounted can crusher with coupons, or even free if you can score one. Check your local thrift store. I've seen them at ours numerous times. Once you have your crusher mounted, place a bin lined with a large trash bag under the crusher. Instruct the family to crush their cans instead of placing them in the normal recycling container. Hang a sign above your normal container to remind everyone that "Soda Cans Get Crushed!" We toss our cans into a bin and when our 5 yo grandson comes over it is his "chore" to crush cans. He gets a check on his "chore chart" (worth $.10) and we can fit many more cans into each trash bag. When the bags of cans threaten to take over the garage, a trip to the recycling center is in order. On a recent trip to the center, our grandson made over $16 to add to his piggy bank. He knows that crushing those cans leads to money in his bank. Hard work leading to reward is a lesson all children need to learn, no matter how young they are!
There are tons of money saving practices...if we just REMEMBER to use them! More suggestions coming soon!